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March 30

March 30, 2013  •  4 Comments

My Dad

DadMarch 30

I am thankful for the life of my dad, Fredrick Thompson Tulley (1919-1983), his influences on me, and the mentoring, coaching, and love he showed to me over the years he was alive. Today would have been his 94th birthday. Unfortunately, lung cancer took him when he was only 64 years old - 30 years ago. As I am approaching the age he was when he died, I realize how young he actually was when he passed away. But time and tide do not diminish the memories that he left with me. Thanks, Dad! Dad was my golf coach and always showed care and compassion as he would often put my deteriorating golf game back together with my broken ego and heart. Even now, I remember the tips he would give me and I try to emulate them when trying to improve my game.

 

The photo above shows a collection of things that belonged to my dad. Although they are in no way representative of the man he was, they do rekindle some fond memories, a few smiles, and a misty eye or two. The old faded  photo below is one of the first photos I took and developed in our basement darkroom when I was something like ten years old. It is of my dad holding a Kodak rangefinder, exactly like the one with which I took the photo, and our family dog Cindy.

dad and cindyMarch 30b

dad

 

years ago

we stood on the first tee

he wore a brightly colored striped

orange, green, and white jacket

with pride

and  i had made fun of him for it

but i knew it was dad

and we shared a laugh

 

what can I say about dad

that would do him justice

from the early memories of him

to the later ones

he’ll always be inside my heart

his lessons a part of me

his trust

his love

his laughter

as he entertained all of us

with the stories he told

his mentoring

his compassion

the father-son tourneys

that we never did well in

but playing together were highlights

times when i caddied for him

more times when he caddied for me

it gave me confidence

to do better than i knew

 

that old jacket

not nearly as brightly colored now 

as it once was

still hangs in my closet today

that jacket

remains as one of my most precious mementoes

of the times we shared.

© rt tulley

 

rt & dadMarch 30c

rt with Dad's Jacket


March 29

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Soul Mates/Marriage

marriage,lit leaves in contrast to the othersMarch 29

I am thankful for soul mates and marriage. Having someone with whom you can share important happenings in your life, someone with whom you feel happy for their successes and cry with in their failures and disappointments, allows us to go through life not alone. This year marks Bebe and my 40th year being married. There have been plenty of rocky times but overall it has been great. And having someone who cares for you and having someone you care about is much better than isolation. It's funny, how Bebe and I are very different people, and yet we think alike. We often think the same things at the same time. I always know her feeling about something and she mine, without asking.

 

The photo is of two leaves, lit by the sun, intertwined in a heart-like shape, in contrast to the other leaves around it. When I reviewed the photo I realized it was symbolic for soul mates and/or marriage. How our partner can protect us from the multitudes around us in a common adventure is pretty amazing to me. Yes, we are in life with everybody else, but we are distinct from them, and having someone with common goals, interests, and likes makes life worth living.

 

wedded bliss

 

in the throws

of great wedded bliss

two hearts clinging to

each other like this

it’s amazing how sometimes

one can come from two

then at other times

it’s a worn out shoe

still other times

it’s like an old unpaired sock

recovery will take a while

but with the other will dock.

© rt tulley

 


March 28

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Picnics

picnics,ducks on picnic tableMarch 28

I am thankful for picnics. Picinics offer us a time to get away from the normal routine, eat, and enjoy friends and family in a different setting.

 

This photo was taken at University Lake on a foggy morning. I liked the way the ducks commandeered the picnic table for their own use. They enjoy picinics too!

 

beanfoot

 

they call me beanfoot

and here’s the reason why

we were going to have a picnic

with friends, family, and i

it was to be at a lake

thirty miles away

so we prepared by cooking and packing

for our holiday

we jumped into our automobile

toward our destination

we were all filled with joy

and great anticipation

i sat in the front

next to my dad whom i had to inform

that somewhere along the way

my foot was feeling a little bit warm

we looked down

and were surprised by what was seen

my foot was placed comfortably

in the pot of hot baked beans

my shoe was removed

and held out the side window

i was totally embarrassed

but still played with my new bow

we arrived at the lake

and quickly jumped out of the door

the lunch was good and the baked beans

had a great shoe leather flavor

so beanfoot i am

and beanfoot i’ll always be

once you have a nickname

it is your identity.

© rt tulley


March 27

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Babies

babies,jessie & madeleineMarch 27

 

I am thankful for babies. Babies are little people in miniature. So helpless, so innocent, so...perfect! We need to care for them, nurture them, and love them. And maybe they will grow into the kind of adults we all need to be. Babies begin with unlimited potential. I so love watching babies grow up, to see their excitement in learning new things, and to see what potential they can fulfill.

 

This is my nephew Jessie's baby girl Madeleine Jade, who was born on Monday, March 25, 2013. Jessie is quite the proud dad.

 

babies

 

babies are

a bundle of joy

babies are

a new playful toy

babies are

dependant on you

babies are

the product of two

babies are

a pooping machine

babies are

not so very clean

babies are

loud and so shrill

but babies are

always a thrill

babies are

to care and love

babies are

straight from above.

© rt tulley

 


March 26

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Attention

attention, cupcake and oakley in doorwayMarch 26

I am thankful for attention. That attention I receive by others (in this case by the dogs) and that attention that I can give to tasks or to others. Attention to someone or something allows you to have complete focus on them or what you are doing and gives you the best opportunity of giving it your best. Just as I am flattered and validated by the attention of others, so too are they validated when you give them your attention.

 

I left the door open a crack on purpose so that the dogs could watch what I was doing but not be able to run off. I was outside taking photos but did not intend to take theirs. But they were so cute I couldn't resist the opportunity. Oakley and Cupcake have been the subjects of several of my Photos of the Day so far and I imagine they will get more opportunities because they are so ever present in my life.

 

attention

 

you hoo people

could i have your attention

i’m acting out rather badly

and yelling not to mention

the crazy hat and clothes

that i am sporting today

surely you can’t ignore me

as you are doing this way

at least i have my dogs

for with them i am number one

to them nothing i do is wrong

to them i am only great fun.

© rt tulley

 

attention ii

 

all I have to do

to get the attention of you

is to be genuinely interested

in everything about you.

© rt tulley

 

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