Welcome to the rt tulley photography blogIt features photos, text, and poetry.March 30My Dad
I am thankful for the life of my dad, Fredrick Thompson Tulley (1919-1983), his influences on me, and the mentoring, coaching, and love he showed to me over the years he was alive. Today would have been his 94th birthday. Unfortunately, lung cancer took him when he was only 64 years old - 30 years ago. As I am approaching the age he was when he died, I realize how young he actually was when he passed away. But time and tide do not diminish the memories that he left with me. Thanks, Dad! Dad was my golf coach and always showed care and compassion as he would often put my deteriorating golf game back together with my broken ego and heart. Even now, I remember the tips he would give me and I try to emulate them when trying to improve my game.
The photo above shows a collection of things that belonged to my dad. Although they are in no way representative of the man he was, they do rekindle some fond memories, a few smiles, and a misty eye or two. The old faded photo below is one of the first photos I took and developed in our basement darkroom when I was something like ten years old. It is of my dad holding a Kodak rangefinder, exactly like the one with which I took the photo, and our family dog Cindy.
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years ago we stood on the first tee he wore a brightly colored striped orange, green, and white jacket with pride and i had made fun of him for it but i knew it was dad and we shared a laugh
what can I say about dad that would do him justice from the early memories of him to the later ones he’ll always be inside my heart his lessons a part of me his trust his love his laughter as he entertained all of us with the stories he told his mentoring his compassion the father-son tourneys that we never did well in but playing together were highlights times when i caddied for him more times when he caddied for me it gave me confidence to do better than i knew
that old jacket not nearly as brightly colored now as it once was still hangs in my closet today that jacket remains as one of my most precious mementoes of the times we shared. © rt tulley
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